This suit must fail. (More later.)[pP]>MPEG4 pricols
MORE (updated at 7:10 p.m.):[pP]>MPEG4 pricols
First, a snippet of the story for anyone who hasn’t clicked the link:[pP]>MPEG4 pricols
In a case involving a California high school girl who was openly gay at school, a federal judge has ruled that the girl, Charlene Nguon, may proceed with a lawsuit charging that her privacy rights were violated when the principal called her mother and disclosed that she is gay.
Now for a couple of caveats. First, the comments that follow are not legal analysis. They are political commentary. In other words, I express no opinion whether this young woman is entitled as a matter of existing law to prevail on her claims. I mean only to say that if the law is on her side, gays and lesbians — and their straight allies — must view the law as wrong.[pP]>MPEG4 pricols
Second, I rely here on the facts as reported by the New York Times and by a federal judge in California, who granted in part and denied in part the defendants’ motion to dismiss.[pP]>MPEG4 pricols
Third, I proceed from assumptions shared by most South Park conservatives, namely:[pP]>MPEG4 pricols
homosexuality itself is morally neutral;[pP]>MPEG4 pricols
homosexuals are not entitled to anything to which heterosexuals are not entitled, and heterosexuals are not entitled to claim a privacy interest in their public behavior;[pP]>MPEG4 pricols
the terms “gay” and “lesbian” are political labels.[pP]>MPEG4 pricols
From the Times’ report and the judge’s order, it’s impossible to determine what exactly Principal Ben Wolf supposedly told Charlene Nguon’s mother. (Can anybody provide a link to the actual lawsuit? It probably contains the specifics.) According to the judge, Ms. Nguon alleges that Mr. Wolf “bluntly [revealed Ms. Nguon’s] sexual orientation to her parents” without her knowledge or consent. [Emphasis added.] But that can’t be quite right, can it? The principal could not have revealed what he does not know, and he does know Ms. Nguon’s sexual orientation. The only thing the principal knows is what he was told by Ms. Nguon herself, or what he has seen with his eyes and heard with his ears — Ms. Nguon reportedly engaged in frequent public displays of affection with another female — and what he infers from what’s he seen and heard.[pP]>MPEG4 pricols
Sexual orientation describes a state of affective, romantic and sexual inclination. It is a subjective experience, not empirically verifiable by others.* The best evidence any of us ever have of another’s sexual orientation is self-declaration. If a woman tells you she is heterosexually or homosexually inclined, you will usually have scant reason to doubt her. But in any event, you cannot actually know what’s going on in her head and heart. Moreover, you risk error if you infer sexual orientation on the basis of behavior alone. In prisons across America, men who would describe themselves as heterosexually oriented engage consensually in homosexual behavior. Does that make them “gay?” It does not. It doesn’t even make them homosexuals.[pP]>MPEG4 pricols
“Gay” is a term of political empowerment, used by people who describe themselves as homosexually oriented. That’s the meaning of the word. And although it can be used inaccurately or pejoratively, Ms. Nguon does not claim that she has been misidentified or defamed. (I assume here that Mr. Wolf called her “gay.” Again, I would like to read the suit.) [pP]>MPEG4 pricols
So if she does not allege to have been wrongly identified or defamed, what’s her beef? There are two possibilities. 1) Whether or not she’s homosexually oriented, which is only for her to say, Ms. Nguon wishes that Mr. Wolf had not described to her mother conduct that he personally observed, or relayed statements Ms. Nguon had herself made. “She often kisses another girl.” “She holds hands with another girl.” “She uses terms of endearment with another girl.” “She says she’s gay.” Or 2) The principal, in reliance upon inference, called Ms. Nguon “gay,” a political term she in fact embraces, but only when it suits her.[pP]>MPEG4 pricols
If case of the first possibility, it’s risible to assert a privacy interest in public conduct. If you don’t want others to know what you’re doing, don’t make them witnesses to what you’re doing. In case of the second, Ms. Nguon would take a term of political empowerment and imbue it, when it inconveniences her, with secrecy and shame. This, self-respecting gays and lesbians should not abide. We cannot allow the conflicted to define us. Not every homosexual is gay. But every gay is an open homosexual. You see the difference, yes? If some homosexuals want to get in the closet, I say let them go and leave them in peace. But if not, they should know the union shop rule applies: take the benefits, pay the dues.[pP]>MPEG4 pricols
I don’t know what homosexuals will think about this case. But I know what gays should think about it.[pP]>MPEG4 pricols
(*Otherwise, what sense does it make to speak of an unmarried, non-dating, celibate priest as homosexual or heterosexual?)[pP]>MPEG4 pricols
ADDED — Ms. Nguon also alleges that Mr. Wolf enforced against her a nonexistent policy prohibiting public displays of affection; she further alleges that this nonexistent policy was not enforced against heterosexual displays of affection. If so, that’s a whole other matter and one for which she would have my complete sympathy. [pP]>MPEG4 pricols